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so many web devs (likely 95-99%) dont know about stylish or stylus
there's an insanely large proportion of ppl that know web code (css, js etc) that do not know about stylish / stylus -- with the best of our undersanding & knowledge, why is this the case??
are these devs focused on super technical stuff and arent users of the web or something?? to deveop the web in a good way, developers have to be extensive users as well
not knowing about stylish or stylus is likely accurate across many sites that have web dev type ppl
i think discord / reddit is some of the worst sites / places to ask about web stuff btw
did not try/test askign on web dev related slacks