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A universal page to view and uninstall all your installed styles?
It would be really great to have a page that displays all of your styles installed using Stylish so that you can uninstall the ones you don't want right from the page.
Now, I know that this could be a little hard to do, but it would be a great addition. This way, people wouldn't have to uninstall and reinstall Stylish to refresh their styles, they could get a full access list to every style they have installed and uninstall the ones they choose without having to go and visit all the pages they have the styles on.
This is just a small suggestion from a long time fan of Stylish who wants to help improve the user experience without much knowledge of code.
Thanks for reading! I really hope an official editor of the plugin sees this!